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Sweet Rose Ramblings (AKA The Call-Waiting Blog)

A place for my unformed thoughts. Help me sort them out!

Wednesday, September 05, 2007

When your friend hates a third party cuz they did something not so nice to you, you know they are a true friend.

At September 06, 2007 1:34 AM, Sarah Likes Green said...: so true!!!!
At September 06, 2007 12:40 PM, come running said...: I agree with you. I was schocked when I found out that someone I thought was a true friend and cared about me and DB told me in response to a comment I said to her about my ex "I don't hate him."

It threw me for a loop that she was not disgusted by him, and the fact that she saw no reason not to continue a relationship with my ex after he physically abused DB (proven in court and no one ever questioned DB's report).

It didn't matter to me what she thought of him when he behaved in a certain way to me, but the fact that it didn't bother her when my child was hurt made me see her in a completely diff. light. It's a shame.
At September 06, 2007 1:24 PM, Shoshana said...: CR -
Some people do great lip service, but when it comes down to it, they are not real friends. I hate your ex just from reading your comment, but that's just me.
At September 09, 2007 12:54 PM, Ezzie said...: I partially agree. Depends on the situation - in CR's case, I too hate the ex already. But other times? I dunno.
At September 10, 2007 9:47 PM, come running said...: shosh and ezzie,
That's why I feel such friendship towards all you fellow bloggers... not to mention trust.